Well, I was wondering.. if there was any other type of way to pleasure a guy without sex somehow? I just think its amazing to please him without actually having intercourse. — Asked by Anonymous
Bear with me on this. I will answer your question in a way that will get you to understand what you (or I) think you are asking me here.
Men are commonly known to be more physical being rather than how women are who tend to be more about the emotional side of things. Men tend to mostly see everything as on a physical plane too. Rather than knowing about pleasing a woman starts with not when he gets in bed, but rather starts when his day started with her or even cos of one single sentence he said during the day. Men on the other hand tend to be aroused by anything from a simple gesture to vastly known form of arousing means such as nudity or even his fantasies. That’s not to say that women are always just emotional beings, they do have their physical side as well but not entirely. But, there are exceptions in some men where they tend to balance both the physical and mental or emotional along the same line. We can’t say for certain how it is with men unless and until a woman knows his man in every way so that she can say in the end what kind of a man he is sexually. If I am to say about myself. I tend to think more about her than about my own pleasure. To me pleasing her is more important than pleasing myself. That’s not the say that I do not get pleased. Cos seeing her pleased is pleasure more than what I get from anything I can do to myself. But as always, we both always think of each other pleasure and not just ours. Its mutual. Always.
What I am trying to tell you here is that its not always the same with all men. One thing that turns on one man won’t essentially turn on another. You can’t predict what he likes and pleases him unless you know the man for more than just a day or two or even weeks or months. Only way to know this is to know the mans heart and go on from there. Sex is as simple as it is complicated. And sometimes the more complicated parts are the simple things about it. Still, as for me, I don’t see it as sex. I see it as making love. So, that being said, get to know your mans fantasies. What turns him on and what doesn’t. And if by not having sex, you mean intercourse or copulation (cruder terms have been said, so don’t laugh! lol), then the means for which you are looking for is physical stimulation by which I mean to say, oral sex or mutual masturbation or anything from teasing to making out. The means are various when it comes to that. The only hindrance here is how far your imagination can go.